Tade is a young graduate from one of the reputable
Universities in the country and also a banker. He has been dating Funmi, a 300
level student studying sociology for about six years now. They met when Tade
was in his final and Funmi just finished secondary school
education then. The relationship has been fine so far but Tade and Funmi never
had sex. Funmi is one of those rare ladies who would love to wait till marriage
before anything happen and his boyfriend didn’t object when she told him. Tade
has already made up his mind that his future lies with this beautiful girl. But
one month ago, they had a very big fight. Tade got angry and so was Funmi. They
stopped talking to each other for two weeks before Tade went to her house to
officially beg for forgiveness. While he was on his knees all alone in her
house begging, Funmi continued to cry. He thought it was what he did but she
said she has offended him. Three days after they fought, she met one of her old
time friends and they hooked up. One thing led to the other and she and the guy
had sex four days after. She wants me back but now am confused. Can I live with
such a woman as my wife? I strongly need your advice. If you were in my shoes
what will you do?
You should take her back.when you do that, she would forever be loyal and faithful knowing she has let u down before..After all, true love forgives.Jesus did so why shouldn't we.
ReplyDeleteYes, I definitely agree with Iheanyi and my only addition is that you should take her back if only you know you have truly forgiven (of which I suggest you find a way to do). There's no point taking her back and not loving her the same because of a past mistake. She'll remain miserable forever and your relationship will be pointless.
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