He Loves Me? He Loves Me Not? by Adrian Udeh

Being sure if a man loves you enough for you to say YES or NO to his marriage proposal, isn't something to guess or play games about.  Last week, i was out with a friend of mine when she told me that her boyfriend had just proposed to her and she wasn't sure if to say YES or NO due to the fact that within their three years of dating, He has literally cheated four times. which now lives her with the big question (if he really loves her enough for her to say YES or NO). I asked my friend what then she intended doing about the proposal, and here was what she had to say. "I am so confused, i tried playing the common *he loves me? he loves me not?* game but it keeps telling me that he does. But deep down i know he doesn't , which then gets me more confused on how a person decides to marry a person he or she doesn't love". I laughed and then told her exactly what i am about to tell you. There are signs at which a guy will display that will get you to know if a guy really loves you or not. They are so many but because i wouldn't wanna bore you with so many, i would just discuss a few.

See if he can truly be himself around you. Part of being loved means

He Says He Loves Me, but Still Beats Me Up by Adrian Udeh

A mail was recently sent to me containing the complains of a 22years old married woman whose name i promise not mention. In the mail, she told me how confused she is in her marriage as her husband has turned her into a punching bag but yet

6 Awesome Ways to Keep Your Romance Alive

In a perfect world, each moment of a relationship would be like that weak-kneed romantic scene in The English Patient when Ralph Fiennes and Kristin Scott Thomas finally get together. So what keeps us from living that swoony, loopy-in-love life? Nothing more than getting stuck in the same day-in, day-out patterns and letting gushiness shift to the back burner. Okay, maybe that and the lack of a beautiful African desert background. Let Cosmo play mushy-moments director and push you to pack as much lovey-doveyness as possible into your daily duo. That means seizing every opportunity to sweeten up even the most seemingly unsentimental times together.

Here, easy but so-worth-it ways to jump-start both of your hearts.

How to Get Your Crush To Like You. (for Girls Only)

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Having a crush can leave you feeling crushed! You feel full of yearnings and longings to spend time with that person who is just so wonderful, but, they don't even seem to know you exist! You need to catch their eye, as soon as possible! These steps will help you be eye-catching and get noticed by that person, no matter what age you are or what your particularly crush scenario is.

 Start at step number one below.

• Act like you don't care. Don't be clingy or desperate. This will make your crush think you have issues they really don't want to deal with. Instead, put on an air of cool. If he don't seem like he wants to talk to you, go talk to someone else. Throw parties and don't invite him until the last minute. Show him that you have your own life and that your world doesn't revolve around cataloging every time he so much as sneeze.

5 Quick Ways To Get Over Your Ex by Adrian Udeh

Breakups are among the most painful transitions that we endure. The pain of losing someone you have loved and still love — someone with whom you shared your heart, your dreams, and your life — can be devastating.

Breakups also activate old wounds from past losses: other breakups, early losses, your parents' divorce, or betrayal from friends. That's why they can be profound opportunities to heal, if we approach them as such

Yet all too often, people remain stuck on their ex and can't seem to move forward. They find themselves caught in a negative spiral of trying to figure out what went wrong, feeling angry at themselves or at their ex, or stuck in a depressed or anxious state. They may also be in a new and healthy relationship, but still ruminating on a past love.

If this describes you, here are five ways on how you can get over your ex :